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		<title>Comment on Top 200 Greatest Classical Music Works of All Time!!! by hvac evaporator coils</title>
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		<description>We&#039;re a group of volunteers and starting a brand new scheme in our community. Your web site provided us with valuable info to paintings on. You&#039;ve performed a formidable job and our whole community might be grateful to you.</description>
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		<title>Comment on Top 200 Greatest Classical Music Works of All Time!!! by Classical Music Works &#124; Music &#124; Free Infomration Tips and Resources &#124;</title>
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		<dc:creator>Classical Music Works &#124; Music &#124; Free Infomration Tips and Resources &#124;</dc:creator>
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		<description>[...] Rachmaninoff 60. La Mer &#8216; Claude Debussy 61. 24 Preludes &#8216; Frederic Chopin 62. Water Music &#8216; George Frideric Handel 63. Violin Concerto in D major &#8216; Johannes Brahms 64. Piano [...]</description>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Aug 2011 16:59:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello this is amazing site! really cool and it will be a new inspirations for me</description>
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		<title>Comment on Newton we have a problem: A hole in the universe at a basketball game! by Riffard Jean-Gilles</title>
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		<description>Pretty cool!</description>
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		<title>Comment on Equations for Marriage&#8230;because love + love Doesn&#8217;t always equal a happy marriage! by 20101031 Lessons du Jour: Being outstanding is not equal to standing out! &#124; www.riffardjeangilles.com</title>
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		<title>Comment on Equations for Marriage&#8230;because love + love Doesn&#8217;t always equal a happy marriage! by Chuck Manhardt</title>
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		<description>I hope the girl in the chalkboard pic fits into my equation lol</description>
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		<title>Comment on Equations for Marriage&#8230;because love + love Doesn&#8217;t always equal a happy marriage! by Dayana Jean-Gilles</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dayana Jean-Gilles</dc:creator>
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		<description>I have a couple of spelling errors that are making me cringe (cuz i am always pointing out other people&#039;s spelling errors)... but they are just typos cuz i am working and was trying to do this at the same time....</description>
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		<title>Comment on Equations for Marriage&#8230;because love + love Doesn&#8217;t always equal a happy marriage! by Dayana Jean-Gilles</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dayana Jean-Gilles</dc:creator>
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		<description>It&#039;s a wonderful article and I agree that love +  love does not equal a happy marriage.  It takes more than love, most importantly, it takes putting god first and foremost, it takes understanding, communication, time and shared interest (or at least, the willingness to look into someone&#039;s interest). ... and let&#039;s not forget... lots of sex (Sorry Riff). 
People fall in and out of love.  I am very unconventional~ love is important but how many ppl do we know or have heard of that are in love yet cheat on each other? Far too many and i know some of you may argue that if you love someone, you won&#039;t cheat but i beg to differ because to (more people than you&#039;d believe) sex is not synonomous with love.  
I can only speak from a woman&#039;s perspective and i am not saying  that as women we should lose ourselves to be with someone or to make a relationship work but how can a relationship work or last if we don&#039;t make the effort to share and take part in their interests? If your man likes football, sit and watch a game with him once in a while.  Hell, host a football party once in a while so him and the boys can watch the game if you&#039;re not gonna sit and watch the game with him or them.  Even if that means that you have to fade in the background for the 4 quarters... in the end it&#039;ll make that men love you much more.  
Allowing someone to have time for themselves and allowing them to miss one is the best thing one can do in the end.  I believe that in every and any relationship, regardless of whether&#039;s you&#039;re one, that each party must have their identity outside of each other.
As women we ask men to be providers but us modern women tend to be everything but nurturers and to me the two go hand in hand.  
Another thing is i don&#039;t think people are honest with themselves and their feelings.  Most of us go from one relationship to another without having worked out the issues from the previous relationship and ultimately end up carrying the baggage and the hurt to the next relationship and end up hurting the new person simply because we are still hurting.  As the saying goes &quot;hurt people hurt others&quot;. We are soo preoccupied with keeping up the appearances that we don&#039;t tell the &quot;potential partner&quot; or &quot;partner&quot; what&#039;s eating us up and therefore never give that person a chance to be there for us.  I am not saying to go ahead and spill your gutts out on the first date (cuz then they&#039;ll most likely run away) but once you&#039;ve decided that you want to be with this person (at least a year~ cuz you really don&#039;t know someone or their quirks till at least that) that you ought to be honest with them.  You owe them that much because whatever you&#039;re hiding may be a deal breaker and once it comes to light, then trust becomes an issue and unless you, as a couple, have a strong foundation, the relationship is bound to go downhill. 

On a personal note, i have been through my share and am at a point in my life where i don&#039;t have time for the games, i don&#039;t have time for a man to tell me that he loves me, i&#039;d much rather have him show me, not with gift (though that&#039;d be nice) but by caring for my needs and wellbeing and not just mine but my daughter&#039;s as well because we are a package deal.  I am an intelligent and attractive woman and i have had an insanely amount of men trying to kick it and trying to get with me but i don&#039;t have time for the promises.  I much rather work on myself first.  In spite of how bad this may sound, i use my daughter as an excuse not to date and tell them that i have a 5 month old and can&#039;t spend the time or energy on a relationship right now (because i can&#039;t expect a man who has it together when i don&#039;t have myself together) and to my disbelief many men have said, i want to love you and be a father to your daughter................................................... and that&#039;s pretty much when they lose me. My daughter has a father and does not need another one. Whoever i end up with will be a father figure in my daughter&#039;s life but i dont ever want someone who thinks that her father will be removed from the picture so they can step in.  I said above that sex is important in making a relationship and/or marriage work, but i also think people should take the time to know each other on a more profound level before adding sex to the equation because sometimes, that sexual connection can cloud one&#039;s judgement and cause people to try and make things work out for the wrong reason.  Ladies~ don&#039;t be fooled, no matter how good you think your sex is, somebody&#039;s is always better, especially if your partner hasn&#039;t had it yet.

Ultimately, i think time and commitment (commitment means love, sex, communication, understanding and the desire to be part of this person&#039;s world) make a relationship work!

Yours Truly,
Dayana</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s a wonderful article and I agree that love +  love does not equal a happy marriage.  It takes more than love, most importantly, it takes putting god first and foremost, it takes understanding, communication, time and shared interest (or at least, the willingness to look into someone&#8217;s interest). &#8230; and let&#8217;s not forget&#8230; lots of sex (Sorry Riff).<br />
People fall in and out of love.  I am very unconventional~ love is important but how many ppl do we know or have heard of that are in love yet cheat on each other? Far too many and i know some of you may argue that if you love someone, you won&#8217;t cheat but i beg to differ because to (more people than you&#8217;d believe) sex is not synonomous with love.<br />
I can only speak from a woman&#8217;s perspective and i am not saying  that as women we should lose ourselves to be with someone or to make a relationship work but how can a relationship work or last if we don&#8217;t make the effort to share and take part in their interests? If your man likes football, sit and watch a game with him once in a while.  Hell, host a football party once in a while so him and the boys can watch the game if you&#8217;re not gonna sit and watch the game with him or them.  Even if that means that you have to fade in the background for the 4 quarters&#8230; in the end it&#8217;ll make that men love you much more.<br />
Allowing someone to have time for themselves and allowing them to miss one is the best thing one can do in the end.  I believe that in every and any relationship, regardless of whether&#8217;s you&#8217;re one, that each party must have their identity outside of each other.<br />
As women we ask men to be providers but us modern women tend to be everything but nurturers and to me the two go hand in hand.<br />
Another thing is i don&#8217;t think people are honest with themselves and their feelings.  Most of us go from one relationship to another without having worked out the issues from the previous relationship and ultimately end up carrying the baggage and the hurt to the next relationship and end up hurting the new person simply because we are still hurting.  As the saying goes &#8220;hurt people hurt others&#8221;. We are soo preoccupied with keeping up the appearances that we don&#8217;t tell the &#8220;potential partner&#8221; or &#8220;partner&#8221; what&#8217;s eating us up and therefore never give that person a chance to be there for us.  I am not saying to go ahead and spill your gutts out on the first date (cuz then they&#8217;ll most likely run away) but once you&#8217;ve decided that you want to be with this person (at least a year~ cuz you really don&#8217;t know someone or their quirks till at least that) that you ought to be honest with them.  You owe them that much because whatever you&#8217;re hiding may be a deal breaker and once it comes to light, then trust becomes an issue and unless you, as a couple, have a strong foundation, the relationship is bound to go downhill. </p>
<p>On a personal note, i have been through my share and am at a point in my life where i don&#8217;t have time for the games, i don&#8217;t have time for a man to tell me that he loves me, i&#8217;d much rather have him show me, not with gift (though that&#8217;d be nice) but by caring for my needs and wellbeing and not just mine but my daughter&#8217;s as well because we are a package deal.  I am an intelligent and attractive woman and i have had an insanely amount of men trying to kick it and trying to get with me but i don&#8217;t have time for the promises.  I much rather work on myself first.  In spite of how bad this may sound, i use my daughter as an excuse not to date and tell them that i have a 5 month old and can&#8217;t spend the time or energy on a relationship right now (because i can&#8217;t expect a man who has it together when i don&#8217;t have myself together) and to my disbelief many men have said, i want to love you and be a father to your daughter&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230; and that&#8217;s pretty much when they lose me. My daughter has a father and does not need another one. Whoever i end up with will be a father figure in my daughter&#8217;s life but i dont ever want someone who thinks that her father will be removed from the picture so they can step in.  I said above that sex is important in making a relationship and/or marriage work, but i also think people should take the time to know each other on a more profound level before adding sex to the equation because sometimes, that sexual connection can cloud one&#8217;s judgement and cause people to try and make things work out for the wrong reason.  Ladies~ don&#8217;t be fooled, no matter how good you think your sex is, somebody&#8217;s is always better, especially if your partner hasn&#8217;t had it yet.</p>
<p>Ultimately, i think time and commitment (commitment means love, sex, communication, understanding and the desire to be part of this person&#8217;s world) make a relationship work!</p>
<p>Yours Truly,<br />
Dayana</p>
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		<title>Comment on Equations for Marriage&#8230;because love + love Doesn&#8217;t always equal a happy marriage! by Riffard</title>
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		<description>@Evelyn: Thanks!</description>
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